Questions:
What is your idea of a perfect day? -On a perfect day I would wake up next to a s.o., take a long walk with him, go to a fun lunch and spend the afternoon with my friends and their s.o.’s in a group, and then in the evening go to my mum’s house.
When did you cry the last time and why? -I cried today when I watched a video but I don’t think that counts. I can’t remember the last time I cried over something real. I had a shitty day today but still didn’t cry.
What, according to you is a sensitive topic that should not be joked about? -Feminism. I saw some discussions today that had some comments that really pissed me off, and most of them were jokes. So annoying Btw I am not an extreme feminist I just find this frustrating sometimes.
Of all the people in your family, who do you like the most? -I can’t pick from my closest family, but in a little broader perspective my favorite is definitely my aunt (dad’s sister). She’s honestly like a friend.
Would you want to choose the sex and appearance of your offspring? -No.
Who is your hero in life and what qualities of him/her you desire the most? -My parents. My mom because she is strong, hardworking, intelligent, healthy, and loving. My dad because he dares to follow his dreams and has a big heart, and worries about his family.
Do you still have feelings for an ex? -Yes I do from time to time. I think those will only fully go away when I move on to someone else.
How did you fall in love the first time? -How…hmm. Well we met in high school and I didn’t really expect anyone to be able to fall in love with me ever (I was that lonely girl yes…lol), and then he just appreciated, loved and valued me so much and I was so in love with him. I thought he was the best thing that could ever happen to me. He saved me in a way.
What is your weirdest habit? -I talk to my kitchen appliances (usually mostly when I’m complaining). I don’t do it to other things in my home a lot but in the kitchen it kind of comes out of me.
Have you ever had the intent to punch or physically hurt a person? -I have pretty much never wanted to do that. We have had some physical fights with my sister sometimes but I’ve never gone in with the intention of hurting her.
Do you have a vice? -Something about me? probably low selfcontrol.
Do you have any regrets in your life? -I have a few but I definitely try not to have them.
If you died tonight, would you think you have lived your life to the fullest? -No. I’m still so young and I have clear lists of things I know I want to experience, and I’m sure I’ll experience loads of extras too.
When people die, what do you think is on the other side? -I hope another life of some sort.
Do you think about other people in your life and how you affect them? -Yes sometimes more so than about myself.
Where do you see yourself 10 years from now? -Hopefully I’ll have a great job, a fiancée/husband, possibly one or two kids already, and just generally more happiness than I have right now.
What do you think about the ‘purpose of life’? -I think it’s family.
Are you afraid of losing anything? Why? -My loved ones and my health and life
Do you really care for all the people around you? -Not all of them…
What is your aim in life? Was it always this? -My aim is to have a lovely family and stories to share with them. My dreams have been less familyfixated earlier.
Is there someone you wish to teach a lesson, and still haven’t? -Many people I’ve met, but I’m sure they’ll learn lessons through other people or experiences.
Are you comfortable talking to strangers? -Not particularly.
What are the three basic factors you look for, in a partner? -He should be caring, funny and intelligent.
Is there a feeling you are trying to ignore? What is it? -Sadness. Monday blues.
Is there something in your life (some memory) that has always troubled you? -No but maybe it annoys me a bit that my earliest memory is helping my dad move away from my mom.
Do you believe in Karma or in doing good? -To some extent probably yes.
What is your definition of ‘Love’? -Depends on the love for whom you are refering to here. For one I do believe that love is what connects us all in some weird way, and that it is the most important factor in living and surviving.
If there is one thing you can die for, what is it? -Love
How important is commitment to you? And companionship? -Very important. I’m not a loose cannon.
Do you believe in reincarnation? -I wish that was the truth, but I have no clue.
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